Post by BadThings on Dec 20, 2015 0:14:23 GMT -5
So please try not to bash me too hard. I kind of fucked up, but holy shit...
So I was drinking some wine last night and ended up chatting with a guy friend I've known for about 9 years. Never dated and last hung out back in 2008. Always platonic.
Anyway, was feeling down about myself and I asked him straight up if I was pretty. I don't know why, but I think I just needed to hear it from someone other than SO because I kind of don't think I'm attractive to him anymore. So whatever, he says I'm a 7, and then we went on in convo about stupid shit.
Anyway, the next morning I go back and read the message and, kicking myself, I say sorry and a comment about me being a skank on wine or whatever.
I get a random message tonight from, I assume, his fiancé that accuses me of being on the phone with him and about once she finds out what I was talking to him about she is going to send screenshots to my everyone listed as my family.
So I explained that she can do whatever, closed up my fb the best I could, then blocked her and him (since I tried asking him wtf was this shit about and I guess his girl was on there and she answered me back pretending that the random fber wasn't her...okay.)
I've had this problem back in the day with her being crazy but he told her she can't control his friends, we never dated or anything, and all our convos minus the one from last night have all been either about games or dogs. I also talked with her and told her I'd stop talking to him because we rarely talked anyway. She assured it was fine and they just had issues or whatever.
But instead of listening to myself, I'm stuck with this drama. :/
Should I be warning my timeline about her? Should I tell SO what happened (he doesn't have family or himself in there.) I blocked her and him. I put as much privacy that I can with my profile.
Just fuck. SO is coming home tomorrow and I don't want to be dealing with this crap.
Please don't quote.
So I was drinking some wine last night and ended up chatting with a guy friend I've known for about 9 years. Never dated and last hung out back in 2008. Always platonic.
Anyway, was feeling down about myself and I asked him straight up if I was pretty. I don't know why, but I think I just needed to hear it from someone other than SO because I kind of don't think I'm attractive to him anymore. So whatever, he says I'm a 7, and then we went on in convo about stupid shit.
Anyway, the next morning I go back and read the message and, kicking myself, I say sorry and a comment about me being a skank on wine or whatever.
I get a random message tonight from, I assume, his fiancé that accuses me of being on the phone with him and about once she finds out what I was talking to him about she is going to send screenshots to my everyone listed as my family.
So I explained that she can do whatever, closed up my fb the best I could, then blocked her and him (since I tried asking him wtf was this shit about and I guess his girl was on there and she answered me back pretending that the random fber wasn't her...okay.)
I've had this problem back in the day with her being crazy but he told her she can't control his friends, we never dated or anything, and all our convos minus the one from last night have all been either about games or dogs. I also talked with her and told her I'd stop talking to him because we rarely talked anyway. She assured it was fine and they just had issues or whatever.
But instead of listening to myself, I'm stuck with this drama. :/
Should I be warning my timeline about her? Should I tell SO what happened (he doesn't have family or himself in there.) I blocked her and him. I put as much privacy that I can with my profile.
Just fuck. SO is coming home tomorrow and I don't want to be dealing with this crap.
Please don't quote.
