Post by dean91 on Feb 18, 2016 11:50:05 GMT -5
Okay, I'm going to keep this as short as possible but it's probably going to be long since I feel some things are key points.
I started my job in Oct. When I started, there were 4 hourly managers and there was drama going on between them. Well one told the other that I was 'talking shit' about her with another co-worker, I wasn't because I had only worked with her 1 day. To me, that's not long enough to even have an opinion of someone. Well that started us off on the wrong foot. Even after me telling her what was actually said and trying to be her friend, she still wouldn't believe me (even when everyone was saying you can't trust/believe the one manager- that said I was 'talking shit'). FF to a few wks ago, I was talking to my GM and mentioned how (We'll call her T) makes it obvious that she doesn't like me. Explained that she's not really done anything to me but that her entire demeanor towards me is different than the others and that I feel it came from what she was told by K (who no longer works there). The next time I came in, T told me she wanted to talk to me and had my GM stay for the conversation. She said she doesn't have a problem with me and blah blah blah. So anyway, after that she started acting differently. She'd talk to me and joke with me and everything else. Then this new girl (B) starts working there. 1st thing T does is start bragging on B "This little girl is going to give you all a run for your money" and yada yada. (This was actually before me talking to my GM and I mentioned how I felt it was uncalled for for T to be rubbing this new girl in our faces and making us feel less than adequate when we'd all been working our asses off- lost 2 managers and 3 crew in a matter of a couple of wks so were short handed). So front line has a list of things they're supposed to do before leaving, none of which B had been doing since she started. I mentioned to T that we need to get the new ppl trained on what they're supposed to do because B had been leaving the place a total mess for me to clean up and nothing stocked (I work fast food), she just made and excuse for B and went on. Recently one of our crew got promoted to hourly manager so I brought it up to him the next time he worked and he had B do what she was supposed to. Next time I worked with T, and B was getting ready to leave, again the place was a mess and nothing stocked, T let B go early. A few days later, I come in to a BS write-up from T, next day discussed it with my GM. I told her that I didn't agree with it, explained the situation and she said she'd check the security cams to see what happened and go from there. I told her I'd accept the write up if she felt that I was in the wrong, she said we'd deal with it if she felt I was wrong. I worked with my GM one day since then and she never mentioned it. I'm pretty sure she saw it my way and talked to T. I told my GM that due to the write up, I won't be chit chatting or joking with T anymore since that was part of the write up. Now T and B are making PA comments and B kept finding gum stuck on her car. They were acting like they thought it was me without coming out and saying it to or in front of me. Well last night, one of the other girls tells me that B was saying it was probably me. Our store is in walmart so T told B "Go to the back office and have them look at the security cams, then you can press charges on whoever is doing it." To me it sounds like T was hoping it was me so they'd have a reason to fire me. I'm hurt, I'm pissed, I'm going back and forth on being done with the BS and wanting to quit or staying because I love the rest of the crew and am not gonna let 2 bitches run me off.
Do you think I should have never said anything? Would you be pissed at the accusations or does this seem more like caring too much what ppl think? Idk how to feel about all this to be honest. I'm upset but what can I do? I don't really want to go to my GM about it because I feel like that would probably just make it worse... Also found out last night that B and I 'can't be on the same shift together'. I feel like I'm being punished when I did nothing wrong...
If you read and followed all that TIA.
I started my job in Oct. When I started, there were 4 hourly managers and there was drama going on between them. Well one told the other that I was 'talking shit' about her with another co-worker, I wasn't because I had only worked with her 1 day. To me, that's not long enough to even have an opinion of someone. Well that started us off on the wrong foot. Even after me telling her what was actually said and trying to be her friend, she still wouldn't believe me (even when everyone was saying you can't trust/believe the one manager- that said I was 'talking shit'). FF to a few wks ago, I was talking to my GM and mentioned how (We'll call her T) makes it obvious that she doesn't like me. Explained that she's not really done anything to me but that her entire demeanor towards me is different than the others and that I feel it came from what she was told by K (who no longer works there). The next time I came in, T told me she wanted to talk to me and had my GM stay for the conversation. She said she doesn't have a problem with me and blah blah blah. So anyway, after that she started acting differently. She'd talk to me and joke with me and everything else. Then this new girl (B) starts working there. 1st thing T does is start bragging on B "This little girl is going to give you all a run for your money" and yada yada. (This was actually before me talking to my GM and I mentioned how I felt it was uncalled for for T to be rubbing this new girl in our faces and making us feel less than adequate when we'd all been working our asses off- lost 2 managers and 3 crew in a matter of a couple of wks so were short handed). So front line has a list of things they're supposed to do before leaving, none of which B had been doing since she started. I mentioned to T that we need to get the new ppl trained on what they're supposed to do because B had been leaving the place a total mess for me to clean up and nothing stocked (I work fast food), she just made and excuse for B and went on. Recently one of our crew got promoted to hourly manager so I brought it up to him the next time he worked and he had B do what she was supposed to. Next time I worked with T, and B was getting ready to leave, again the place was a mess and nothing stocked, T let B go early. A few days later, I come in to a BS write-up from T, next day discussed it with my GM. I told her that I didn't agree with it, explained the situation and she said she'd check the security cams to see what happened and go from there. I told her I'd accept the write up if she felt that I was in the wrong, she said we'd deal with it if she felt I was wrong. I worked with my GM one day since then and she never mentioned it. I'm pretty sure she saw it my way and talked to T. I told my GM that due to the write up, I won't be chit chatting or joking with T anymore since that was part of the write up. Now T and B are making PA comments and B kept finding gum stuck on her car. They were acting like they thought it was me without coming out and saying it to or in front of me. Well last night, one of the other girls tells me that B was saying it was probably me. Our store is in walmart so T told B "Go to the back office and have them look at the security cams, then you can press charges on whoever is doing it." To me it sounds like T was hoping it was me so they'd have a reason to fire me. I'm hurt, I'm pissed, I'm going back and forth on being done with the BS and wanting to quit or staying because I love the rest of the crew and am not gonna let 2 bitches run me off.
Do you think I should have never said anything? Would you be pissed at the accusations or does this seem more like caring too much what ppl think? Idk how to feel about all this to be honest. I'm upset but what can I do? I don't really want to go to my GM about it because I feel like that would probably just make it worse... Also found out last night that B and I 'can't be on the same shift together'. I feel like I'm being punished when I did nothing wrong...
If you read and followed all that TIA.
